** I want to add a graphic header (on my calendar, can it be done? **
Yes.
** Right now, I put the code in but I see a RED X where the graphic should be. **
Than you've entered an incorrect path/url for it.
** Is there a specific folder that the graphic should be in in order for it show up? **
No, you just have to use the proper path/URL to wherever the graphic is located. Right now you have the image tag pointing to:
ww.shaggystudio.com/sscoe1zz.gif
And there is no such domain registered as far as I can tell.
Check your work!
Dan O.
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